Why Kids Don’t Listen When You Say “No”

Don’t Allow Kids to Negotiate In the book, Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction author Catherine Pearlman explains that giving attention to children doesn’t necessarily mean happier and healthier kids. Selective ignoring bad, attention seeking behaviors helps minimize or eliminate the unwanted behaviors and increases […]

NANNY & CHARGE DISCIPLINE CHART

Getting Children to Help Create Their Own Punishments To finish our series about discipline we recommend creating a discipline chart with children. Have the children help you make their discipline chart. For example, ask the children what they think would be a fair punishment for a sibling that yells at the other, if they talk […]

REWARDING CHILDREN FOR NANNIES AND AU PAIRS

Sweet Rewards You Can’t Eathttp://www.stvincent.org/NR/rdonlyres/CF830B84-75C2-47F1-9DA7-A6A9EF664AF2/0/SweetRewardsCantEat.pdf Let’s face it, kids are bombarded with food rewards.Win Math Olympics at school – get a pizza party.Win the soccer game – ice cream all around.Come to Sunday school – we’ve got doughnuts! Unfortunately, we have become a society that uses food for much more than fueling the needs of […]

USING POSITIVE DISCIPLINE FOR NANNIES AND AU PAIRS

Positive Discipline By Rory Donaldsonhttp://www.brainsarefun.com/Posdis.html Positive discipline describes a way to reduce undesirable behavior, and increase desirable behavior, by rewarding the positive rather than punishing the negative. Positive Discipline describes an action that is introduced after a desirable behavior so that the behavior will be repeated in the future. Positive Discipline is based on the […]

HOW NANNIES AND AU PAIRS DISCIPLINE

The Three Common Discipline Styles The February 2009 Be the Best Nanny Monthly Guide http://www.bestnannynewsletter.com/ will discuss discipline. To help you answer the mini-poll to the right on this blog and a more detailed survey on our web site at http://www.bestnannynewsletter.com/monthlypoll.htm here are the definitions of the most common discipline styles. These definitions can be […]