Holiday Hot Drink Stirrers

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In an attempt to make inexpensive holiday gifts with my Nanny Kids this year, we made these adorable hot chocolate or coffee stirrers. We used ingredients that we thought would make a mug of hot chocolate or coffee taste better. Wrap them up in cellophane and add a ribbon for holiday gifts.

You Will Need:

Wooden Coffee Stirrers or Wooden Spoons
Semi Sweet Chocolate and White Chocolate Chips
Mini Marshmallows
Peppermints
Any Other Small Candies You Would Enjoy in Hot Chocolate
Microwave Safe Bowls
Baking Sheets
Parchment Paper

What to Do:

1. Gather all ingredients ready to use you must work quickly once chocolate is melted.
2. Line baking sheets with parchment paper.
3. Continue below.

Crushed Peppermint and White Chocolate

1. Slowly melt white chocolate chips in a microwave safe bowl in the microwave. Stir the chocolate every 20 to 30 seconds. Be sure not to overcook the chocolate.
2. Dip wooden utensil or stirrer in the white chocolate.
3. Immediately roll into crushed peppermint candies.
4. Allow to dry on parchment paper lined baking sheet.

Chocolate and Mini Marshmallows

1. Slowly melt chocolate chips in a microwave safe bowl in the microwave. Stir the chocolate every 20 to 30 seconds. Be sure not to overcook the chocolate.
2. Dip wooden utensil or stirrer in the chocolate.
3. For a stirrer, immediately roll in mini marshmallows. Allow to dry on parchment lined baking sheet.
4. For a spoon, dip the spoon in the chocolate and then place spoon on parchment paper lined baking sheet. then place marshmallows on the chocolate.

Why Kids Don’t Listen When You Say “No”

Don’t Allow Kids to Negotiate

In the book, Ignore It!: How Selectively Looking the Other Way Can Decrease Behavioral Problems and Increase Parenting Satisfaction author Catherine Pearlman explains that giving attention to children doesn’t necessarily mean happier and healthier kids. Selective ignoring bad, attention seeking behaviors helps minimize or eliminate the unwanted behaviors and increases appropriate behaviors by kids. Selective ignoring is not truly ignoring children, but rather not engaging with them when they misbehave. It’s essential to re-engage immediately when the undesirable behavior has ceased.

Nagging, whining, and negotiation by children are learned behaviors. When kids don’t listen to the word “No” it’s because the parents or caregivers are allowing them to negotiate. Negotiating with children never works because it becomes a battle of wills that never ends. Children think there is room for change because there is if you allow negotiation.

Once an adult gives in after saying “No” the kids learn their parents or nannies will cave if they persist to nag or negotiate long enough. Kids simply stall and delay and stall delay until they get what they want. Negotiating actually increases whining because one concession leads to another.

Instead of arguing or negotiating with the child when she doesn’t listen to you when you say, “No” ignore the child by not making eye contact and do not talk. After saying, “No,” turn your back, look busy doing something else, and don’t show you are annoyed or make sounds like you are annoyed.

Still monitor the child’s actions. You have to know when to reengage. Waiting for the moment the child stops whining.

Immediately happily and kindly reengage with the child when the whining or nagging has ended. Do not rehash the reasons why you ignored him or it will start the bad behavior again. Even if you are annoyed don’t show it. Be enthusiastic even if you have to fake it.

With consistency and persistence the child will learn you mean what you say, and say what you mean, when you say, “No.”

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