Why “Emotional Intelligence Program for Children” Belongs on Every Nanny’s Bookshelf

In a world where we teach ABCs, 123s, and how to tie shoes — let’s not forget to teach how to be kind, how to properly express big feelings, and how to be a good friend.

As a nanny, I’ve read more picture books than I can count — from mischievous monkeys to magical trains. But every now and then, I stumble upon a gem that’s more than just storytime — it’s a toolbox in disguise.

That’s exactly what I found in the “Emotional Intelligence Program for Children,” written by Kinderwise and charmingly illustrated by Cecilia Coto for older toddlers to young elementary school aged children. 

This isn’t your typical bedtime book — it’s a 5-in-1 masterclass in emotions, manners, and social smarts, wrapped in colorful pages and kid-friendly language. Let’s unpack why it’s become my secret weapon in raising emotionally savvy littles.

This beautifully bound volume combines five mini-books:

• How to Describe My Feelings

• How to Make and Keep Friends

• How to Mind My Manners

• How to Calm Down

• How to Stay Safe

That’s right — 58 real-world lessons that cover everything from saying “please” to managing tantrums. I like to think of it as a social-emotional Swiss Army knife.

“Emotional Intelligence Program for Children,” has three recurring characters thatbring the concepts to life. Sparkelina is a curious little girl exploring emotions. Busybee is a buzzing ball of impulsive energy. Sophie the Elephant is a calm, wise friend we all want on speed dial. 

“Emotional Intelligence Program for Children,” works for nannies because the pages include adult guidance, sample dialogues, and reflection prompts. Whether you’re filling 10 minutes between snacks and nap time, or tackling a post-playdate meltdown, this book offers ready-made conversations.

Working as a nanny I have used this book for many fun activities and games I will include in the future on this blog. One example is during quiet time I have read, “How to Calm Down” and then I have created a calm-down toolkit with real items: squishy ball, glitter jar, and a snuggly elephant for a little one in my care.

“Emotional Intelligence Program for Children,” is playful yet purposeful, beautiful yet practical. Honestly, it’s one of the few books I can read again and again — and still learn and create fun activities to help the children in my care express and manage their big feelings. 

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