“The Case for Cuddles,” written by a British Maternity Nurse, is a book title that makes you want to put the kettle on and wrap yourself in a fleecy throw before you’ve even opened the cover.
Kirsty Bennett has gifted nannies and parents with a book that argues what we’ve known since the days of Mary Poppins, that cuddles are not just for comfort — they’re foundational.
Bennett makes a compelling argument for the power of physical affection in early childhood development. But don’t be fooled by its sweet name. This book is based on facts and research.
Bennett doesn’t just tell us cuddles are good. She proves it, layering scientific evidence with personal stories that made me laugh into my tea more than once.
She dismantles outdated ideas about “spoiling children” with affection faster than a two-year-old dismantles a tower of blocks you just finished building. And her take on boundaries? Spot on. Because yes, affection is vital — but so is consent. A lesson even some grown-ups haven’t learned.
The tone of “The Case for Cuddles,” is refreshingly non-preachy. You can almost hear her whisper, “You’re doing better than you think,” between the lines. It’s like a reassuring pat on the back for parents and caregivers to follow their natural instincts when caring for children.
For nannies, this book is a validation. For parents, it’s an invitation. And for anyone who’s ever been told they “spoil the children with kindness” this is your mic drop.
A five-cuddle read. Keep it on your shelf, your bedside table, or tucked in the nanny changing bag next to the emergency snack stash. You’ll want to return to it often for advice, for comfort, or just for a warm literary hug.
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Review By Stephanie Felzenberg
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