Importance of Saying “Please” and “Thank You” to Nannies and Kids

I confess, it’s easier and more pleasant to work for parents that are kind and say, “please,” and “thank you.”

I cannot underestimate the importance of my employers being kind and showing appreciation. It makes me want to work harder. Employers being grateful for my work is also an important reminder to be kind and show appreciation to the children in my care.

I realized today while reading instructions in a text that my current employer simply wrote the word, “please,” in the instructions and it made me feel great.

It’s pretty remarkable to realize that those six letters can make such a big difference in how I felt when simply reading instructions from my employer.

In a previous position a parent never used the word, “please,” when asking me to do something. I realize it is actually rude.

It also feels awesome to be acknowledged for trying to do well at my job. It feels wonderful when my employers say, “thank you.”

Scientific research supports this theory that gratitude increases job satisfaction. In 2004–2005, two major studies by Park, Seligman, and colleagues demonstrates that expressing gratitude offers a multitude of advantages. Notably, the studies revealed a strong connection between gratitude and increased life satisfaction. Furthermore, subsequent research has consistently shown a positive link between gratitude and job and life satisfaction.

So, literally just saying, “thank you,” can boost self-esteem, overall wellness, and reduce stress levels.

This simple act of my current Mom Boss writing, “please,” has encouraged me to make sure I make a concerted effort to ask the kids to do things with a nice tone and saying, “please.” I need to make an effort to see the good in the children and what they do each day.

I understand that taking care of other people’s children and home can sometimes be a thankless and difficult job. But, I confess, it makes it easier to work for parents that are both kind and grateful on a daily basis.

Reference:

Positive Psychology by Seligman, Steen, Park, Peterson